Don't measure your life by the number of breaths you take - but by the number of things that take your breath away.

I am an honest, well adjusted guy who is interesting and Interested and... I enjoy sharing ideas, perceptions, insight, observations, all conversation and anything about everything ... I am looking for the connection, not perfection. I believe that true communication, real connection happens live -- face to face.
Love green tea, Guinness, my children, chilli chocolate - Also love Bob Dylan songs, enjoy badmington and running. Done the Great North Run a few times

I enjoy cooking, with wine, - sometimes I even put some in the food.

Was Home Secretary for 3 days, until spelling error was discovered. now a training manager for a medical company.
I live with my 13 year old daughter (thats where the grey comes from) in Holmfirth.

I have enough money to live on for the rest of my life - so long as I don't buy anything

ps If at first you don't succeed, then skydiving definitely isn't for you. All those who believe in psycho kinesis please raise my hand.

What I am I Looking for? - a relationship that is intimate, fun, romantic, growth enhancing and dedicated to the welfare of the other- a woman that gets it...and knows what to do with it xx

If I ever get bored I go down town, find a reaaly good parking spot, sit in the car and count how many people ask me if I'm leaving.